Ya know that old crush you had – maybe in high school or maybe in college. Do you ever think about him? What spurs on these thoughts or day dreams? Honestly, I was struggling with this. At some point my thoughts switched from fond times to what if dreams. NOT OK. I tend to dream at night about all of the random things that I see throughout the day. I dream about recipes, home remodeling, friends, cleaning. Pretty much everything. BUT. I found myself dreaming about him. Why? It’s been years since I’ve seen him. Not true. I saw him almost daily on Instragram and/or Facebook. We haven’t talked in ages, but I was still following him and his “friend.” Why not? Don’t we all have like 400+ “friends” just cuz that’s what Facebook is whether or not we even converse daily/weekly/monthly? Truth is, even though he is definitely not a bad influence, I don’t need to be seeing and thinking about him. I talked about this with my Bible study ladies and was encouraged to unfollow and unfriend this guy. Nothing against him, but that was an unnecessary distraction. I’M SO GLAD THAT I DID! Do you have something that is distracting you? Snuff it out. You don’t need to be “connected” to everyone and everything just because technology allows you to be.